I’ll admit that I really like to be in the know about things. There is some secret pride(yeah I
know thats a bad one too) in being the first to know something. Maybe because it artificially inflates my errant belief that I am smart. Maybe because it makes me momentarily more sought after for knowledge. Or maybe it’s because I’m just plain nosey.
I’m pretty sure we all know how harmful gossip can be though. We have probably all fallen victim to it and made someone a victim of it in our life. I heard an interesting thought about hearing gossip the other day.
I listen to sermons from various preachers on my way to work in the mornings. This particular sermon contained the statement that they would stop people from telling them gossip because of the obvious fact that if the person wanted you to know they would have told you and the lesser fact that does create a momentary sense of pride in ones own actions. It creates a fleeting sense of judgement.
That however is not the main point I took away. I had an altogether obvious, but new revelation. Maybe it’s better that we let the person tell us their story because while as an outsider we may be able to get a grander perspective of the whole situation, listening to their perception of the situation will really enable us to be in their shoes for a moment. To be more understanding of the how and why of the situation. If we had the precursoral knowledge, we have already formulated our vision of why what they did was wrong our ability to empathize is limited. Our relational point is destroyed. Our ability to listen and respond with an open heart is ultimately ruined.
