Recently I was talking with a good friend about vacation. He has a very different sentiment in regards to vacation than I do.
He hates dreads them.
Yeah I know. How can that be?
He looks at it from a different viewpoint. As a result of a busy life and many responsibilities it is often easier for him to not go on any type of vacation because he has to spend a greater amount of time making sure his responsibilities are taken care of before he even leaves. Not even mentioning the actual preparation for the trip itself. I see his point. Sometimes when we come back for a trip there is a mountain of laundry to do and chores galore to be taken care of. It can be overwhelming.
I’m on the polar opposite of that viewpoint though. The preparation for a vacation is something that enriches the destination for me. It helps me to build a level of excitement and expectation about that particular trip.
And I catch myself treating life the same way. I get too preoccupied with the destination and trip that I don’t focus on the current moment. I don’t spend my time trying to encourage those around me to take the same trip I have planned.
What is a healthy way to remind yourself that this life is not only about the destination, but the path to get there as well?